ELEVATED
Support for driven women who want Love to feel as natural
and fulfilling... as the life they’ve built.
You get to feel cherished, supported and deeply seen.
As the woman who is driving the quality and direction of your love life.
You've built a life you're proud of.
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You're not confused about who you are or what you want.
But when it comes to love, things feel frustratingly out of sync.
You've done all the things:
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- You know your attachment style
- You've had coaching or therapy
- You've learned plenty of "lessons"
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Building a life comes easy to you.
But love keeps handing you... "complicated situations".
You meet people easily, Go on dates.
Get into relationships...
Maybe you're even in an early relationship right now and want to be sure it doesn't follow the same pattern as the last ones...
ELEVATED is your well-timed 1:1 support system that helps you feel proud of the love experience you've built.
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And working together is where this all begins.
This Year... Everything Changes
Imagine this... four months from now:
You wake up, he's making you breakfast.
He paid attention to a conversation you recently had. A desire you shared.
The day is all planned, you didn't need to do anything.
You feel deeply seen.
After our four months working together, you're no longer over-analyzing, wondering "is it me, or is it them?"
Or feeling the need to always be in the driver's seat,
for this relationship to work.
The best part... he's noticed.
You seem... softer. More receptive.
And he likes it.
So he does everything in his capacity to keep it that way.
YOU get to make this happen
What you receive...
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12 sessions over 4 months: We meet 3x/month as you navigate dating or your new relationship in real time.
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Support between sessions: WhatsApp / Voxer audio for moments of doubt (1 daily message + feedback M-F)
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Practices that soften your everything: Mind, body & soul. Tantric + somatic tools that help elevate and sustain your new identity in love.
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A down-to-earth & experienced Certified Coach: 25+ years in long-term relationships AND is currently dating.
I know the landscape and what you're navigating
After we work together...
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You feel like the woman driving the quality and direction of your love life. You learn to trust there's another way.
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The cycles dissolve: Over-functioning, attracting unavailable types, needing to manage the emotional connection.
Day by day, you become the woman who simply receives.
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Peace replaces hyper-vigilance. Late texts, gaps in presence, shifts in mood no longer send you spiralling.
Because you trust in what you're creating.
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His response shifts, who you attract shifts. They meet you there with plans, pursuing. You create the space for him to show up, and he does.
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You feel proud of who you are and who you've become in love. Giving this relationship (or the next one!) the best possible chance to thrive.
You no longer need to navigate this alone:
Your Investment:
We work together 1:1 over Zoom for 4 months:
800euros / month
(or 3000euros pay in full)
Instead of:​
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Wasting more time, energy and money on apps, dates or relationships that don't work out.
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Another year you could be going on adventures and feeling cherished by your special human..
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More nights (or months!) spiralling over "is it me or is it them?"
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We work together for 4 months and you move beyond your pattern, for good.
2 spots available in April. Decide you are the kind of woman who makes this work.
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€800/month for 4 months.​
​€3000 PIF (save 200euros + includes a personalized audio meditation)
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Complete your ELEVATED application below and take the first step toward enjoying a new love adventure, by this summer.
Have questions? DM me right in Instagram here:
What clients are saying...
Those few months of coaching with Xine were amazing. She helped me reconnect to my sensual and loving nature. After losing myself in my relationship, she helped me regain strength and self-confidence. Xine's coaching is like a rebirth, leaving behind all the crappy stuff your mind taught you but isn't real. Thanks Xine!
— Nelia
Thanks to Xine, I learned how to communicate in a healthy way, identify the signs my body and mind were sending me, and prioritize my safety and desires in relationship.
— C
I’ve been to therapy before and knew self worth was something I needed to work on. This experience with Xine has shown me to stop looking at where I’m lacking, and focus on what I already know I need in a partner. I can communicate this now, where I would have usually ignored my desires. I’m seeing my current partner respond to what I’ve shared I need in the relationship: Adapting to me, rather than me adapting to somebody else is a big deal!!
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Xine helped me see I have the power to be a woman who sets her standards and inspires her partner to rise to meet them. I can now see the person I’m with, as someone who could actually work out really well, instead of resisting & expecting the worst, due to previous bad relationships
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- Anonymous
Hi I'm Xine La Fontaine
Love Coach & Identity Evolution™ Founder
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I help driven women feel as fulfilled & powerful in their new relationship as they do in life, without over-giving, over-compensating or losing themselves, so that they can
feel seen, cherished and proud of the love they’ve created (and get to brag to their friends and family about).
Identity Evolution™ is my signature framework designed to elevate who a woman believes herself to be in love. And as a result, the relationship she desires becomes her new normal.
Common Questions:
Q: What if my relationship ends during the 4 months?
A: ELEVATED isn't just about saving this relationship. It's about becoming the woman who decides and never needs to over-function again... in ANY relationship. My biggest transformation came through a breakup. This will be immensely valuable no matter where you're at.
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Q: Is this done over Zoom? How do the daily audio messages work?
A: All 1"1 coaching sessions are via Zoom. You also get to send me ONE short and concise (1-2 minute) WhatsApp/Voxer audio message daily M-F and you will receive an audio message from me, for that day's feedback. This allows you to stay focused and steady in your new identity.
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Q: Do I need to have done a lot of personal development to join ELEVATED?
A: If you're determined, you will take the framework from ELEVATED and succeed with gusto!
But that said, this has been created for women who've done a lot of work on themselves: therapy, coaching, podcasts, books and are tired of not seeing the same results they experience in the rest of their life... land in the same way in love. If you're not sure, contact me and let's explore!​​
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Q: What if I'm not in a relationship right now but want to prepare myself for the next one?
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A: You are the in the best possible place to ensure the success of your next relationship.
ELEVATED works for women seeking, in early days or even in longer-term relationships already.
We build the identity shift so you don't repeat the pattern when you do meet someone.